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People & the Ordinary

The small, specific moments that make up an ordinary life: a flight delayed, a hotel remembered, a teacher honoured, a friendship that outlived its purpose. Not arguments or lessons, just an honest attempt to notice people and places clearly, including the writer's own ageing, uncertainty, and the identities carried along the way.

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The Man Who Changed How I Look at Hotels 01 Apr 2026

I did not enter the hospitality sector by design. I walked into it through a conversation. That conversation was with Param Kannampilly at the Orchid Hotel Mumbai, a place that, at that time, was already being spoken of as India’s first “ecotel.” This was in 1997. I remember less about the formalities of the meeting and more about the insistence in his voice. He spoke…

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Cape House, Langsuan in Bangkok – A Place That Waits 27 Mar 2026

Cape House is one of those addresses in Bangkok that does not try too hard to impress. It sits quietly in Soi Langsuan, a street that manages to stay composed despite being located within one of the busiest parts of the city. Langsuan has always had a certain advantage. It is close enough to activity, but not consumed by it. A short walk takes you…

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A World Without Consultants : A Conversation on the 104th Floor 20 Mar 2026

On Sunday morning, Professor and I took the lift to the 104th floor, Most of my readers know about my Friend who lives on the 104th floor in the tallest building in Mumbai. For those who don’t know, this friend of mine is the richest person in the world. His wealth is more than the wealth of Ambani’s (I mean Mukesh), Adanis, Tatas (including Shapoorji’s), Birla’s…

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An Evening Before the Year Rolls Over 26 Dec 2025

They live in an apartment on the seventh floor. The kind where every balcony looks into another, and curtains become a way of recognising neighbours without knowing them. They have been married for over forty years. Long enough to stop announcing milestones. Long enough to know that New Year’s Eve does not arrive with excitement anymore. It arrives with a question of what to do…

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The Art of Continuous Learning: A reflection on becoming a student again at seventy 15 Nov 2025

For most of my life, I have been the one holding the chalk and later the marker pens. A lecture hall at IIT Bombay, a factory floor in Vietnam, a boardroom in Mumbai, a workshop in Berlin — the setting never mattered. I was almost always the one explaining, interpreting, or provoking thoughts. So, when I enrolled in the ten-month Stanford Seed Transformation Program, the…

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When Flights Wait, People Fly 09 Nov 2025

“Ladies and gentlemen, flight AI-456 to Mumbai from Hyderabad is delayed due to operational reasons.” The voice was polite, almost apologetic. To me flight delays are the great equalizers. They make CEOs, students, and honeymooners share the same stretch and stress of terminal time. Couples sitting next to you bicker in low tones over who should have checked the flight status earlier. I looked around…

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So, What’s Your Specialization, Dr. Modak? 01 Nov 2025

It was a simple question, yet, for a moment, I didn’t know what to say. I was at an event when a young interviewer asked, “What’s your field, Sir?” “Sustainability?” I replied, hesitantly, as if I were unsure of my own identity. Her eyes lit up. “That’s great to know, Dr. Modak! But within that, what’s your specialization?” Now I was completely lost. Sensing my…

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King Trishanku: Neither Here Nor There 21 Oct 2025

A reflection for a Diwali of distant lights. It is Diwali again. The diyas are lit, the sweets are exchanged, and yet the house glows with a gentler, more private light, but that light doesn’t fill in the home. There was a time when laughter spilled from every corner, The house was a stage for reunion and rituals. The children would compete to light the…

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All things must Pass : When the Heart Learns to Begin Again 18 Oct 2025

He lived alone now, in a quiet lane where the bougainvillea leaned into the sun. Three years had passed since she left, suddenly, but quietly, as music suddenly fades. The house had grown used to her absence, though he hadn’t. Sometimes, when he opened the kitchen cupboard, he still found her favourite teacup, chipped at the rim, but never thrown away. Her scarf still hung…

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Happy Teachers’ Day 05 Sep 2025

“Do you remember what your teacher taught you?” Most of us don’t—those lecture notes, formulas, and slides blur with time. What we carry instead are the memories of people who taught—their kindness, their quirks, their humanity. This blog is my tribute,  my gratitude to all the teachers, mentors, colleagues and students who taught me and made me today what I am. I refer here to…

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